Monday, February 7, 2011
Spaghetti
A lot of people always try sooooo hard to get a girlfriend or boyfriend in High School. And I don't understand why they would bother with it so much. I could understand if you were 25 or 30, but most students at MHS are under the age of 18. And you know, there is a difference between having a good time with a sweet-heart and just being flat-out desperate. Yeah, you say you love this person now, but then it gets "complicated." Don't think I don't understand "love." I do. Very well. And when things get complicated, there's no point to even try for that person anymore. It's over, you know it, they know it, everyone knows it. So why fool yourself? Because you're desperate!!! Duh! It's not complicated, you're just afraid that you might never find somebody better, which is a lie. There is a person out there for everyone, and I'm not just being corny. There are more than 3,000 people in the world just like you. You'll find them, you just blind yourself with impatience. And when you find that person that you "love" and they make it "complicated," then they are not who you are meant to be with. You could go for years and through several hundred people, but you'll end up with the right person, and you'll know that there is no turning back :) I'm single, and I don't really care. It's not just something that you say to make yourself feel better... I don't really care that I'm single because I'm 16. I don't really care that I'm single because I'm not desperate. I don't really care that I'm single because I know that when you feel the most un-loved, somebody new enters your life and makes it all better. It's a game. A waiting game. Not a complicated one.
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i must say that i feel differently when you said that when times get rough you know and they know it's over and that you only stay together if you are desperate. some people even through fights and when times are fucking hell stick through because you truely love that person. even when life tears you down, and tries to rip you apart, you hold on because you LOVE them, not because of DESPERATION, my friend.
Love is not infatuation there is a difference. I think you think you understand love but you don't. You're understanding infatutation, where you think you are in love with someone keyword think. Love is where you stick by the person through hell and thin. Most highschool kids fall into infatuation not love. Big ass difference
I agree with you, I see so many high school students desperately trying to find someone to be with, and it's a little pathetic. They don't know how to be independent, so instead they settle for being codependent and it's really sad. I hear people saying they love their significant other after a week. I just want to shake them and scream," No, you don't!" People just can't be patient these days :\
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